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My co-worker revealed things about my family to people in our office

I prefer to keep my life private, and am now being called a liar for doing so. Plus: avoiding invitation overload.

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What are my responsibilities when hosting house guests? Do I provide meals?
Plus: How to handle the aftermath of an argument.

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My neighbors have staked their claim to my pool

Every day has become a pool party. Sometimes they stay even when my family and I go inside.
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Finding the right response to someone who is grieving

Can saying ‘I’m sorry’ make things worse?

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My spouse and I are busy all summer. Can we give ourselves a break by backing out of plans with friends?
Plus, critiquing a friend’s bad poetry.

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When, and when not, to tip
Plus, the finer points of making virtual introductions when networking.

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Tips for preparing the most dreaded of all speeches: the wedding toast
It can be nerve racking speaking in front of a room full of people. Try these simple suggestions for celebrating the happy couple.

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Planning for summer guests when prices are rising
These days, I need friends to pitch in for groceries when I invite them to my beach cottage.

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In the season of sneezes, how many times can you say ‘God bless you!’ to an allergy sufferer?

My co-worker acknowledges every single sneeze. And, two’s company.

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Is it creepy to compliment a stranger’s clothes?

Plus, reviewing etiquette for hosting a baby shower.

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I suspect my neighbor is mistakenly putting diapers in the recycling. Can I say something?

Plus, dealing with a baby shower gift dilemma.

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How do I tell people in my life I’ve lost my job?

Plus, my parents are closing their restaurant. I think it’s rude when people ask why I’m not taking over.

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Can I use express checkout with more than 10 items if I’m shopping for an elderly neighbor?

Plus, taking offense to a BYOB party invitation.

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Is there anything I can say to absurdly loud restaurant patrons?

How to politely cope with impolite people. Plus, best practices for wedding announcements.

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My mother-in-law keeps pressuring my 21-year-old about having a baby!

Plus: Who pays for weddings these days?

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Advice needed: My friend offered to treat me with alternative medicine. Um, no?

Politely declining a friend’s offer of medical care. Plus: gratuitous behavior.